Grieving has been part of my life more intensely for the past 7 years. Recently, losing my cat has been the most difficult loss to deal with after my father’s. The best way to cope with all the suffering, for me, is to create something artistic out of it. I wanted to honour my cat because he was an important part of my existence for almost 14 years. Lucky’s arrival and departure had a spiritual poetry that anyone who has lost a beloved pet will understand.
Writing has always been a powerful way to heal. Many years ago, I published a collection of poems and short stories called “From Depression to Creation” – in Portuguese: Da Depressão à Criação. It was a cathartic experience in my life, especially after dealing with major depression since the age of 13. My second book, “How to Be a Good Husband” – in Portuguese: Como Ser Um Bom Marido, was published when I was dealing with severe health issues; however, I was thriving because my wonderful gentleman and our fur baby were taking such good care of me, and my books were selling like hot cakes!
Now, writing about Lucky and how I feel about losing him, projected in his character, is helping me tremendously. Of course, the purpose of writing this play is to create a beautiful memorial, a tribute to my cat, but I also want to touch people’s hearts when it comes to grieving and respecting others' process of dealing with loss and pain.
The comical elements inserted into the kittens' scenes give a sense of hope and relief, helping to balance the play’s energy.
I hope my play will help someone feel less alone in their grief and perhaps, a little more seen. It really destabilizes whoever is going through this kind of loss.
It’s the same, sometimes bigger than losing a person, and therefore, there’s no shame in admitting it. There’s no right or wrong, or no deadlines for grieving.
"The Lucky Life of a Black Cat" is the highlight of my writing journey and will always have a special place in my heart. It is not just a whimsical play: it is my love letter to Lucky, my healing journey, and a tribute to the mysterious bond between cats and humans. It symbolizes a way for me to remain forever connected to those I have lost, and to always keep their memories alive in my heart.
